2011: January - April

Is it really April already? Geeze…

I was thinking about it the other day, and I have accomplished so much in these past four months, and I have undergone so many positive changes for myself…

First, I began the new year off by beginning at a new job in Lansdowne and leaving Costco, who I had been with for 4 years.  It was definitely a scary change… It was almost like breaking up with a boyfriend after 4 years and dating again… I had to just “get out there”.  It was definitely worth it – I knew for sure I didn’t want to spend my entire life working for Costco, even though it is truly a great company.  I’m glad I stayed as long as I did though – or I may never have met Derek…..

That’s the other thing that has been so great about this year so far… my boyfriend.  He is going to kill me for saying these next few things, but I’ll take the heat.  Derek and I fight sometimes (more like have arguments.. there is no true “fighting”), and we get frustrated with each other, and even sometimes need to separate before one of us blows up.  Besides all of that (which I think is absolutely normal), I can honestly say he is definitely the best boyfriend I’ve ever had.  Our attitudes are very similar.. and we both have sarcastic tones, jokes, and even cruelty to dish out – but it’s definitely something we both are working on.  My favorite part about it is that we both agree to meet in the middle.  It’s never one sided, really.  He’s a very reasonable man, and for that I am thankful.  All I really know is, I’ve never had a man talk, touch, treat, or care about me the way he does… sometimes it makes me angry because I realize I wasted so much time with other men.  Then again, I think I had to go through the relationships I did in order to be who I am today, and same for Derek.  We both learned a lot about ourselves from our previous boyfriend and girlfriends, and I think it made US even more compatible.

Another exciting change that has taken place finally – I moved out! I spent my first night at my new place this past Saturday, and have been there since.  I LOVE it.  Moving in went smoothly, with the help of Derek and my step-dad.  I still have my jewelry armoire I need to get from my mom’s, but besides that I am all moved in.  I have a ton of pictures I need hung up in my room and I haven’t a clue how to do that sort of thing lol.  I’ll be calling my dad next week for that for sure.  Last night I spent the evening on the couch with my roommate and her boyfriend just talking and getting to know each other, oh, and watching Tosh.0.  I had a lot of fun until I realized it was midnight and I definitely needed to hit the sack.   I’m very happy I get along with my roomies, they’re such good girls with big hearts… I think I may have hit the jackpot roommate-wise : )

So yesterday I took the plunge and… went blonde! Well, sort of.  I got highlights a month ago that came out more blondish/red since my hair was literally black before.  I found out the dyes that many salons use in Turkey have this metallic mineral in them which makes the dye stick to your hair hardcore… so basically the bleach wouldn’t take to my hair so well since I had gotten my hair done in Turkey in October.  Boo.  Well, when I went yesterday, the bleach finally took! It looks great, at least I think so.  It’s not completely blonde all over, but it’s definitely more blonde on top (I got full highlights – all over my head), with dark on the bottom.  Kind of looks like I have highlights and low lights.  Anyway, I love it.  Going blonde has been something I’ve always wanted to do, but everyone has always told me it would clash with my dark features and wouldn’t look “natural”.  Well, obviously it’s not natural lol… but it looks cool, and that’s all that matters :P

Well… those are my changes… I’m pretty happy with myself and my courage to accomplish all of them.  I have no idea what the next few months have in store for me… but I think I see a lot of wine, warm weather, and friends ;) I hope I’m right, because that is exactly what I am ready for!!!

Another Day To Appreciate Your Life

Oh hello long lost blog… I guess I suck at keeping this thing up to date.  Well hmm where should I start?....

Well, I move out of my mom’s place this Friday… which I am highly excited for.  I’m also somewhat anxious, though… I’m nervous about being alone most of the time.  I truly enjoy surrounding myself with others.  Even if there is a movie I’m trying to watch, I feel comfortable knowing there is someone nearby making some kind of noise.  Maybe this comes from living in extremely noisy households for the past 5 years? I’m not sure. This is why I wanted a cat… but maybe I’ll just have to convince Derek to stay over more often ;) I’m also going to miss Shyla and Zeva like no other.  These two Pit Bulls are my absolute favorite to fall asleep with, and to wake up to.  They take up ALL of the room on my bed, and I’m usually confined to a small corner all cramped up.. but it is worth it to see them sleeping so peacefully, so I hardly ever move them (unless I’m in a bad mood haha).

I found out some great news concerning a family friend…. The Ruff’s have been my dad and step-mom’s friends since forever (and by forever I mean when they got married, which was like 7 or 8 years ago).  Tobin actually went to the AF Academy with Cenia (step-mom), so they have been friends for a very long time.  Anyway, when Tobin and Kim had baby Lexie, she was born with many problems, disabling her to grow and function like a normal baby.  She has had two kidney transplants, she may never be able to drive a car due to her eyesight, and she was on dialysis for a very long time (I remember babysitting her and having to feed her through syringes that would enter her stomach through tubes, because she could not consume real food).  It is a very sad, yet happy story for Lexie.  Sad because she will never be “normal”, and extremely happy because she is still with us.  She is our little miracle child, I love her dearly.

Kim has now published a book in the honor of her daughter, Lexie, called, “Brave Just Like Me”.  The book is only available in paperback for right now (Hard cover comes out April 5^th, I believe) and you can purchase it on Amazon.com for $10.00.  The book is beautiful, the illustrations and words really hit home, and if you know of any child going through anything like Lexie is, this will definitely make them feel not as alone.  I am SO proud of Kim, Tobin, Lexie, AND Madison for all of their hard work, sleepless nights, and countless trips to the hospitals…. I don’t even know half of what they go through, so I can only imagine the strength it must take…

Saturday was a pretty great day actually… Laura and I went to Gold’s and SWAM! I was very nervous because I haven’t actually swam laps in a long time, but I think I did pretty well.  It was a kick-butt work out, I’ll tell you that much.  The hot tub afterwards was very soothing though ;)  After the gym, we found myself a new comforter for my new place, went to my place and unpacked just a few things, then we hit up Bluemont Vineyards.  It was so nice to get up there and split a bottle of wine and simply relax.  It was sort of funny that we went there wearing our gym clothes and tennis shoes while everyone else looked pretty dressy. Ooops. Afterwards I went to my dad’s for some dessert and hang out with the Ruff’s and my siblings, it was a pretty nice time :) When I left my dad’s I went home to shower, get ready, then I met back up with Laura at Clyde’s for a few drinks and to people watch all of the older men and women get drunk.  It was pretty hilarious actually to watch all these 50 year old cougars and men get SO incredibly drunk they are grinding on each other and getting sick in the bathroom… it was definitely entertaining.

Sunday is supposed to be a day of rest, right? Well then, mission accomplished!  I literally slept the ENTIRE day.  I woke up a few times and looked at my phone, had a few texts and missed calls here and there, and then I would crash again.  It was so nice.  I think this was my body’s way of telling me I needed the rest.  I love listening to my body.  It was kind of lonely though, not going to lie.  I enjoy waking up to someone NEXT to me, not alone :(

I'm Not Irish, Kiss Me Anyway!

Shamrockfest 2011 was a success!

Actually, the entire day was a success (Except for the very end, but I won’t go into details of that escapade).

We (Derek and I), began our day with a workout at his community gym, then got ready and Laura came over! Headed over to the metro to RFK only to find out that they were doing some sort of maintenance on the train, so we literally took the metro for two stops, then got off and took a shuttle bus to another stop, then got back on the metro.  I’m still trying to figure out WHY they would schedule this sort of maintenance on day where they KNOW there are going to be thousands of drunken idiots looking to cause trouble.  Anyway, once we got off the metro we were walking to the stadium parking lot (Where the event is held), and I hear, “KIKI!”, I look to my right where I see this adorable blonde curly-haired bundle of energy running towards me.. it’s KELLY! I look past her and I see JACK! … It was so awesome to run into them there. I knew they were going, I just hadn’t brought my cell phone to the event so I knew I wasn’t going to be able to locate them… so randomly bumping into them was such a nice surprise :)

Once we got through the gates, we went straight over to the “NAT-Mobile” to see Derek’s friend, Ray, who works for some event/promotion company.  Afterwards, we went to the VIP area and got our beers! Well, more like we got our beers, chugged, got back in line, got a beer, chugged… repeat 5x.  Actually, Laura and Derek are more of champs than I am… which is totally okay, I’m definitely content knowing I can’t chug that well, do any beer bongs or shotguns… not my thing. I think I consumed 5 or 6 beers the entire day and I was definitely past the point of tipsy. It was a great time.

So I mentioned above that I ran into Kelly and Jack… well, we also ran into Laura Fender and Robby Bassler (THIS was awesome since I hadn’t seen them in forever… like.. since high school kind of forever), Suzie Bataineh (Who happens to be Derek’s old co-worker and my old boss’s wife… kind of confusing, I know) who showed me pictures of Layla (her daughter), who is SERIOUSLY such a freaking cutie.  We also ran into Derek’s friends (I forget their names), I went out with them to a bar awhile ago.. pretty cool people.  I used to work at Lansdowne Resort as a waitress, and I ran into one of my old co-workers from there, that was pretty random.  Laura also ran into some of her friends that I don’t know.  Last night I found out that Anthony, Omar, Joanna, and Adriana  were there also and didn’t even let me know (rude). It would have been fun to see them.  Again, it was a really fun time… I thoroughly enjoy taking pictures with random people and conjuring up topics to discuss with them… I’m all about making new friends and really just having a good time! I just wish that I could remember what I was talking about to half of those people…. :/ haha.

Heads up: When they say “Turkey Leg”, I really don’t think they mean turkey.  I swear that thing was ham… saturated with salt.

T-Minus 2 weeks and 4 days until I move out into my new place.  I think I’m going over there today after work to sign a lease agreement and get my keys. I’m getting very anxious.

Here is my “random” thought for today.. which actually isn’t too random since I think many girls my age begin to wonder about this… My friend Caroline just got engaged to her long time boyfriend, Zach, which is absolutely amazing.  I am truly so excited for them.  I know firsthand that it has not been smooth sailing for these two, and that there have been trying times in their relationship that have pushed both of them to the brink.  However, they have always loved each other… they always find their way back to each other… I think that says something. 

I have another friend who is engaged as well and getting married this September to a man she met while going to school down in Florida.  They are a beautiful couple, and while I don’t know them AS a couple (I know her more, and have met him only a few times), I know that Sarah is in love… sometimes you just “know”, you know? Anyway, I got their “Save-the-date” in the mail over the weekend, and I really think I’m going to go to their wedding down in FL. In September.  I love the fact that someone thought about me and actually wants me to witness their marriage.  It’s a very special thing in my mind… I am really honored.

Back to my thought… Aren’t they afraid? Honestly, that is my concern.  I mean, maybe they are so sure of themselves that it doesn’t cross their mind… or I could just be worrying too much (which is usually the case).  I am nowhere near the point of being engaged to anyone, and even I’m worried about the day that it MIGHT happen.  Will I be ready? Will I be sure? Am I ready to make a commitment and spend the rest of my life with this person?

Actually, I think I’m more afraid of the relationship failing than I am of actually making the commitment.  Ever since my parents divorced I’ve always known that it was something I never wanted to go through, or more importantly, put my (potential) children through.  I want to be absolutely 100% positive.  Then again, isn’t that kind of impossible? People change, they grow, they take different paths…. What I want for my life right now at the ripe age of 23 may not be the same as what I want for myself and future when I’m 27 or 33 or 40… is it fair of me to marry someone based on our morals, goals, and personalities NOW when I know in a few years they MIGHT be different? But also… is it fair of him to ask the same of me when he may change as well?

… I know what you’re probably thinking.. “She is over-thinking this way too much”, which is probably true.  I don’t care though… this is a huge decision, in my eyes anyway, and I want to make sure that I do it right, and do it ONCE. 

Thinking back to what I said previously… maybe my friends are just “sure”?  If they are, I really envy them… I really hope that when my time comes (IF it ever does), that I am just as sure as they are.

Congratulations Caroline Wells and Zach Boyd… and congratulations Sarah Black and Kris Wagner… I am SO happy for all of you <3

A Venting Session

So I’ve written a list of things that I am grateful for… and I thought since today I am just in one of “those” moods, I would compile a list of things that I do NOT particularly like.  Here are the things that bother me/I hate:

1.       Dishonesty.

2.       “white lies”… Really? Just grow some balls and spit it out… stop trying to cover it up.

3.       Bullying (This is fresh on my mind after watching Dateline last night)… Obviously you’re insecure if you bully people around… and it’s very unattractive.

4.       People who think they “know it all”. Get off your high horse and drop back down to reality.

5.       People who NEVER pick up their phone. What the HELL is the reason of having one then?! So it looks pretty deep inside your purse where nobody can see it and you can’t hear it ring? Grrr!

6.       Cold weather.

7.       Two-faced people. Well really, who actually LIKES two-faced people?

8.       Mustard – gross.

9.       Stubborn people and people who cannot accept change.  This is a huge one… “The only constant in life is that nothing stays the same”… so suck it up and MOVE ON!

10.   Jersey Shore…. Ugh. I’ve never seen a single episode but it bothers me that there is SO MUCH hype about it. Why?!

11.   Justin Bieber… again, what is the hype about? He’s like a 10 year old boy…

12.   Girls who are so narcissistic and need all the attention from every single guy at the bar, even if he is in a relationship.  I hate girls who always talk about themselves and their “assets”, and think they are the hottest thing ever.  I’m not saying they AREN’T attractive (physically, that is), but because of your self-centered attitude, they become so UGLY I can’t even stand it…

13.   People who think smoking and drinking are the only ways to have fun. Get a life.

14.   Animal haters. You’ll get yours.

15.   People who always have to have a “plan”… sometimes I want to wake up and just do and go wherever the day takes me, no plan necessary. Live it up, geeze.

16.   Negative people… which is ironic since this whole post is negative … :/

17.   Cheaters.

18.   Ex girlfriends of my boyfriends.. I don’t know what it is, I just don’t like them.  Which actually sucks because I hate when my ex boyfriends new girlfriends don’t like me… hello, we broke up? Obviously we don’t like each other.

19.   Homewreckers

20.   Bright lights.

21.   When computers are slow… ugghhh..

22.   Drivers who slow down when it’s a green light… Green means GO, guys!

23.   Bad customer service when you’re at the “customer service” counter.

24.   People who talk really loud… oh, AND people who talk too quietly.

25.   Too much sarcasm.

26.   Racism from ALL angles!

I think 26 is good for now… even though there are plenty more on my list.  I think the negativity needs to stop now.

I think the gym will put me in a good mood today : ) Stairmaster, here I come!

Things Are Looking UP

My title explains it all. 

Today, I was actually BUSY at work.  Who would have thought?  Since the beginning of the year we have been SO slow, with hardly any loans coming in… Well, today I worked on several, and I have at least 5 more on the way tomorrow.  I LOVE being busy at work.  The worst thing is to sit at a desk for 8 hours staring at a computer screen… -_- talk about mind numbing.

I had to travel to Baltimore yesterday for a meeting at our corporate office… I hate that commute.  Literally, you could go 90mph the entire time and it would STILL take 1.5 hours to get there.  So anyway, me and Derek met up after work and we got some margaritas at Uncle Julio’s…. oh yes, and a shot of tequila each… random Wednesday drinking is so much fun <3

After drinks and hanging out with D, I went back to Ashburn to see Caroline and Zach who got in town yesterday.  It was so nice to go over to her parents house (even though it’s not their old house which we will always love), and just chill out, kick our feet up, and watch Survivor (or any other TV for that matter).  I got to meet her new kittens (Bielsky and Zuma), who are absolutely adorable.. and of course we can’t forget Kaos, and Caroline’s Parent’s new(er) pup, Leo.  Zach’s mom, and Caroline’s brother, Connor, were also there… it felt like “old times”.  It was much, much needed…at least on my end, anyway.

Today when I get off work Caroline and I are going to Michaels and to Best Buy for me to look at some new laptops.  I can’t believe my old laptop died on me… thank goodness I was able to salvage my pictures (which are probably the most important things I own)… but now I can’t just depend on my ipad… I really need a note/net book or laptop that I can d/l music on, upload pics, etc.  Hopefully I can find one for a reasonable price.

There are so many exciting things coming up that I’m so pumped for!

Let’s see, well.. let’s face it, I look forward to every single weekend even more now because that means I get to spend that entire time with my favorite man.  Next weekend is Shamrockfest, and again… let’s face it, who doesn’t like St. Patrick’s Day festivities? I’m so excited to wear all green and act like a fool at RFK while listening to great music, drinking beer, and eating all day long.  YES!

Another great thing I have to look forward to is April 1^st – “Kristen becomes an ‘adult’ “ day… well this is how my mom sees it, anyway.  I see it as the “It’s about damn time I did this” day, AKA.. I’m moving out of my parents house and into a condo with a roommate.  It’s a condo right here in Ashburn so I’m still very close to work and family (and now even Caroline!)... it’s actually a very perfect setup, and I’m super excited about my roommate, she’s such a sweet woman and I have a great feeling we’re going to get along fine. 

There’s even more… On April 9^th I have to look forward to my anneanne and uncle coming to visit! I haven’t seen my anneanne since we went to Turkey together (that was only 4 months ago but still… it seems like forever ago), and I really haven’t seen my Uncle Akin since…. Hmm… I can’t even remember.. maybe Christmas 2 or 3 years ago? I’m very anxious to take them out to DC during the Cherry Blossom Festival, and just show them around the nicer areas NOVA/DC have to offer that they have yet to see.

Another great thing that is currently going on is that Caitlyn has finally started school…. And that’s a relief since she hasn’t been to school since like… November? I think. Anyway, she is making new (and better) friends, so I’m very excited for her to get back on the right track.  She has come a long way, and I think everyone should really give her the credit she deserves.  She still has a little attitude that I’m trying to adjust… it’ll just take time ;) Other than that, she’s a wonderful girl, I know she will be just fine.

I’ve noticed this blog has been great for jotting down random things that are going on/how I feel.. I’m so happy I finally was able to create one, and STICK with it .

The temperatures have been increasingly getting warmer. I LOVE THIS. I’m so ready for Spring and Summer I could cry… seriously... I think I've already done it.

Hmm you know what Spring/Summer means? A new hairdo - duh! I’m still contemplating whether I should go darker, or lighter… and then I remember, I probably won’t have any money to get my hair done once I move out.  Bummer.  See, there’s always a catch.

Can't I have the CAT without the DANDER?

My mom’s birthday week finally ended on Friday at Kazan Restaurant (Turkish Cuisine in McLean).  I think she was more thrilled for it to be over than anyone else, haha…. Being “24” and partying all week is difficult! I had some amazing Doner Kebap, which ended up being a pretty large portion, so I’m having the remainder today for lunch, YUM!

Since Derek had a “guys night” on Friday, I woke up on Saturday morning by myself at my house, which I thought would suck (and it kinda did), but then I realized I was going to be able to get A LOT done that day… and I definitely did!  I woke up early, took the dogs on a walk, went to the gym, went tanning, got my nails done, picked up Caitlyn and we went to Ulta for some shopping, got a haircut, and then went over to my dad’s to play with the kiddos AND do my taxes! I did all of this before 2:30pm, might I add ;) After leaving my dad’s, I went home to shower, and then I drove to Derek’s to hang out for awhile.  We ended up going to the mall where I got a few things, which felt so nice, since I hadn’t bought anything for myself in awhile.  After eating some Chipotle, we went back to my place to pick up Caitlyn again and we three went to Cold Stone to indulge in a tasty treat.  We went back home and CRASHED hardcore, lol.  It had been a long day for me, and Derek was probably still getting over his hangover so he needed more rest.

Sunday morning, Derek and I woke up early, got ready, and headed to Eastern Market in DC.  I’ve just got to say that I absolutely LOVE it there! I want to go back so bad, but next time bring my mom and probably Caroline, cause I know she’d love it also.  It reminded me a lot of when I used to visit my Granny and Meemaw in Tennessee and we’d go to the flea market, or annual 127 sale… just a bunch of people selling their own crafts/foods/antiques… it was a beautiful day to go, also… temps were around 59 degrees.  Derek surprised me with a very pretty necklace from one vendor, which was very sweet of him… what else is new? I got my mom a picture as well as some jams.. and I got myself a picture also, I just need to get a frame for it now.

After leaving Eastern Market, I was on a natural high from the amazing weather and didn’t quite want to just go home and lay on the couch, so Derek and I decided to go play “miniature golf”… NOT putt putt, as I found out.. but “mini golf”.. apparently putt putt is a company? Who knew?

Anyway – mini golf is closed until March…. Stupid.

So instead we stopped by Petco and they were ironically having a an ADOPTION FAIR! Hello! Puppies and doggies everywhere! I loved it! I held a bunch of puppies and kissed them, played with them, fed them… it was so cool! It made me want to get one so bad… and then Derek gave me the honest truth about how it’s like having a baby… your entire life pretty much revolves around the dog.  He is right though, I definitely remember when Matt and I got Bailey and Morgan we were tied to them as though they were our children.  We couldn’t stay out too late because we had to be home at a certain time to take them out, feed them, etc.   Well, at this time in my life I do NOT have the patience for that kind of responsibility… especially living single.  So… a cat it is! But wait… then I found out Derek is allergic to cats. What the heck? I’m currently exploring ways to rid my house of cat dander so when my boyfriend comes over he doesn’t blow up like a balloon and sneeze himself away. 

So anyway… after our adventure at Petco we stopped by the Turkish store to pick up some soujouk, feta, olives, grape leaves for Derek, candy, etc.  It makes me so happy knowing Derek likes Mediterranean food… definitely makes things much easier! Once we got back to my place, we took Shyla and Zeva on a walk with Caitlyn… I think Derek was extremely close to picking up Z and throwing her in the lake and leaving her ass there lol…. In his defense, Zeva is a very stubborn dog, and does not take direction very well… at all.

Basically -  I had an amazing weekend.  I got so much accomplished, and I got to hang out with people that mean so much to me.  What’s even better news? Today Caroline and Zach (along with Kaos, Zuma, and Bielsky) begin making their cross-country trip back HOME!  Thank goodness, because I’m craving a visit to the Leesburg Outlets.

Side Note:  I’ve decided (after many lectures from my boyfriend) that I need to watch my mouth .. with, you know… potty words.  I don’t even know what it is really, they just slide out of my mouth sometimes without me even realizing it; but obviously everyone else DOES notice it.  So, if you know me, and see me on a regular basis… please do not hesitate to inform me when my language reaches rated R.  I even give you permission to give me a little punch on the arm…I’ve got to rid myself of this unattractive habit.  I wish I could understand how it even started, but now that’s no use… I just need to FREAKing stop it. ; )

UPDATE

I haven’t updated this thing in awhile… so I thought I’d give it a go.

Well, this past weekend was another great one, of course, because it was spent with Derek ;) Friday night we went out to the Reston Town Center with Laura and Nikki… we had a fun time drinking margaritas at Uncle Julios, and then we had drinks at Clyde’s.  It was Derek’s first time at the RTC, I want to take him back when it’s warmer outside and actually more enjoyable.   Derek and I spent all day Saturday hanging around my house with Jaden/watching TV/him playing Madden with Jason/me sleeping.. you get the idea.. it was very relaxing.  We originally had wanted to do something out that night, but got pretty comfortable on the couch with pizza and beer haha.  Also, Jason’s brother, Adam, and his wife, Ciara, came by and spent the night, so it was a pretty chill night – I loved it.  Sunday, Derek and I met up with his mother and sister in Manassas at a small Italian restaurant.   This was my first time meeting any part of his family, and it was a great time, I think.  His sister is absolutely beautiful, and his mother is probably one of most kind women I’ve ever met.  I was very thankful that I had the opportunity to meet them, and I very much look forward to hanging out with them again!

Monday was President’s day and I got the day off, which was much needed actually..  I went over to my dad’s house and hung out with my siblings for a little while, lounged around the house, then went over to my old office to say hello to everyone I hadn’t seen in a few months – it was very nice.  Around 4ish I went over to Derek’s, we popped open a bottle of wine, and started putting together a jigsaw puzzle that I think will probably never get  accomplished… especially since his cleaning ladies put the puzzle away – which means we will have to start ALL over again -_-

So Tuesday was my mother’s birthday, and she didn’t let anyone forget, lol.  She has come up with a new rule that works perfectly for this year and next only.. it goes like this:  So this was her 42^nd birthday, so she takes those numbers and flips them, so really.. this was only her 24^th birthday!  Next year she turns 34, which is still great, because as I’m finding out as I’m getting older, my 20’s will be NOTHING compared to how much fun I’m going to have in my 30’s!  Anyway, we celebrated by going to the Ashburn Pub for some drinks with a whole group of people.  I actually had a lot of fun, mainly because Derek came also, and I think he really enjoyed himself, too.

Side Note: It’s so nice to have a boyfriend that will actually go out with my family and friends and have a good time, not complain about how boring it is, or give me crap about how he’d rather be at home in his sweats watching TV.  I spent way too long worrying about the satisfaction of another man, it’s so nice to have someone in my life who shares my same interests, and I’m not constantly having to make sure they are O.K. or amused.

Well since it’s my mom’s birthday “week”, we are also going to celebrate tonight by going to HH at Jackson’s in the RTC; I think Laura may join as well, so that will be very nice.  I believe we are finishing up the weeklong celebration by going to a Turkish Restaurant in McLean tomorrow. 

  

Good news – Caroline just texted me with, “I’ll be home in 130-140 hours”… this put a HUGE smile on my face, which was definitely much needed, since I’m having a horribly stressful day at work so far.  All I can really say is, thank goodness Derek supplied my chocolate fix yesterday, otherwise I’m pretty sure I would have screamed today at work.

Two things:

I’m pretty positive the amount of nights I will be going out/eating out are going to be CUT, and the amount of new Spring clothes I will purchase this year is going to be drastically lower than previous years.  Why? I’m saving up for my trip to Turkey in August, which Derek may join me on, which would be SO much fun (for MANY reasons).  I can’t wait to show him Istanbul, and then go to Bodrum with him and party our butts off on the beach all day.

The other thing I’m being financially picky about? MOVING OUT! I still live with my mom… and I love her to DEATH, but the era of living in my mom’s basement has got to come to an end.  Between my mom, Jaden, Jason, Caitlyn, and Alan being home every now and again… I’m smothered! I should have done this a long time ago… but, better late than never.  So hopefully this occurs within the next few months! :)

Ghirardelli Squares, I Love You.

I think this was the National Zoo’s second year hosting “Woo at the Zoo”… and it turned out to be a fun experience.  I got tickets for Derek and I to celebrate Valentine’s Day there on Friday night, and I think he enjoyed it, also.  It’s basically a lecture in the visitor’s center of the Smithsonian’s National Zoo, where they have Zoo-keepers of the lions and cheetah’s get up and explain (in a humorous way, of course) how they mate the cats.  They even had some funny videos and pictures… it was very educational, cute, and eye-opening.  I love learning about all types of animals, and I make it a point to visit the Zoo every year (or twice.. or three times ;) Animals truly make me happy, and I’ve always known my dream job would be to work with them… preferably in their natural habitat, but the zoo would suffice as well… as long as I got to learn about them and be around them.  Hell, even volunteering at Pets Mart would make me so happy.  I should really research more and find opportunities around the DC area to help with animals… it’s about time.  Anyway, after the Zoo, I had planned for us to hit up P.O.V. (Point  Of View) at the W Hotel, but Derek really wasn’t feeling well still, so we decided to just go back home.  I crushed a few pieces of pizza, and it was lights out.

Alright… hello to anyone who has never been.. you should definitely know that Medieval Times is the COOLEST experience EVER. Okay… not EVER, but it’s definitely up there, haha.  Saturday night Derek and I celebrated Valentine’s Day (again) by him taking me to Medieval Times in Maryland… needless to say, I had an amazing time.  We had great seats in the front row, and our knight (Black and White), ended up winning! What more could you ask for? Oh yes… how about the jumbo sized frozen margarita I got, being able to eat with your hands (which I wasn’t too sure about at first, but once the tequila set it, I was all for it!), and the ability to act like a crazy 12 year old boy? Hahaha… I had a blast… I need an excuse to go back ;) We ended up going back to my place afterwards and relaxing/taking care of Jaden since my parents went to DC for the night.  I think saying that Jaden “likes” Derek would be an understatement hardcore.  This kid tells him, “I love you” every chance he gets it feels like….

Sunday morning we lounged around my place taking care of Jadosh, watching Batman, and eating.  Took a hardcore nap, which felt so good, then it was off to my dad’s house for us to babysit my other brother and sister.  The kids and I introduced “Just Dance” on the Wii to D-rock, and we know he fell in love ;)  Just kidding, although that punk did ALMOST beat me, and he didn’t even get up off the couch! -_- 

Well, since Derek and I celebrated V-Day during the weekend, I’ll be celebrating tonight with the girls :) I got reservations at Clyde’s tonight for me and a few of my girlfriends… I think this is much needed, and will be a fabulous time.  I can’t wait! Pictures to come :)

Again, completely un-related… but, last night since I was a freaking insomniac and couldn’t fall asleep for the life of me, I looked up flights to Turkey for the end of August/beginning of September, and they are extremely reasonable.  I think I’ll be booking my ticket within a  month or so, I have GOT to go back.  I miss my family and Istanbul so much; however, when I go this time, I’m definitely going to be taking the train down to Bodrum for a few days (maybe 4 or so), and party my butt off in one of the most beautiful vacation cities in the World! I get a HUGE smile on my face just thinking about it. 

Sweet Wine and Sunshine

How did I get so lucky? Sometimes I really ask myself this.. and I sit there and think about all of the things I’ve done in the past (and recently) to deserve the amazing things coming my way.  This morning Caroline texted me and told me that she may be moving back to NOVA from LA within the month.  THE MONTH! Um hello? Are you telling me I’ll finally have my Sweet Caroline back home?  I seriously shed a few tears and told my co-workers how thrilled I was.

This means… hours spent on the couch watching reality TV, random hikes to Great Falls, McDonalds really late at night, cooking up some good food (more like Caroline cooking for me), shopping adventures, and so much more.  Seriously, doing absolutely NOTHING with this chick is exciting, which is why I love her so much. Caroline – Come home NOW! J

The other night I got other great news as well … my anneanne (Grandmother) is returning home to the United States from Turkey!  She will be stopping here in NOVA first to see us and go to the Cherry Blossom Festival and celebrate Jason’s birthday, then she will be heading back home to Kansas where the rest of the family lives.  I can’t wait!  I went to Turkey for two weeks this past fall with my anneanne and we grew very close; I miss her so much, and can’t wait to be reunited with her.  I also can’t wait until she is back in Kansas so then I can possibly book a ticket to go see everyone.  I have missed my family so much, and was unable to attend two weddings this past Summer (My aunt and uncle got married), so I feel very left out and just want to celebrate!

Gahh… well one bad thing that is happening right now is that Derek is really sick.  He had an infection in his lung or something (He didn’t really go into too much detail), and he was treated as though he had pneumonia.  He missed Mon-Wed. of work, and is at work today, but not feeling so great.  Hopefully he gets to go home and rest up before this weekend.  The only good thing about him being sick is that he is too weak to fight back with me or even care, so I’m getting my way ;) Seriously though, it makes me sad to see him in so much pain, I really hope the meds to their job.

Laura is also sick, she missed Zumba last night due to a temp. of 101 : ( …. Hopefully both she and Derek get better soon … and let’s hope I don’t get sick along the way.

Today I am craving a Rascal Flatts concert.. tailgate first of course, and then a jumbo sized margarita in one of those guitar plastic tubes.... Summer, please come quickly.

Another Weekend Gone

Since my last posting was pretty much a short novel, I'll keep this one quick.  This past weekend was the Superbowl, which is cool, I guess.  I didn't care too much about it since neither of the teams were ones that I particularly care for.  Jason, my step-dad, is a big time Steelers fan, and my friend, Anthony, is a big time Packers fan... so that was kind of cute.  I ended up watching the game at Derek's friend's house, and a bunch of people came over, including Laura, which made it even more fun!  Laura left right before half-time, and then Derek and I dipped right at half-time... it was fun to meet even more of Derek's friends, I definitely had a good time.
Backing up to Friday night, I ended up going out to Union Jacks in Ballston with Derek and his friends - this ended up being a really fun night.  I had never been there before, so I wasn't sure what to expect... and I found myself really enjoying the company of the people that were there.  I also drank a lot that evening, which could have something to do with me having such a great time, but it was totally worth it.  The hangover on Saturday morning wasn't too bad though, and I eventually killed it altogether with some meds and Zumba at Gold's! I convinced Derek to join me at the gym that morning, and after each of us worked out we went back to my place to eat, and then he passed out while I took a shower and got ready.  We were still hungry when we left my house so we ended up crushing some burgers at Fudruckers (hello magical burger heaven).  When we got to his house, it was his turn to take a shower while I got a good nap in, and once we were ready to leave, we went to the movies to see "Black Swan", which, in my opnion, was AMAZING.  Derek didn't quite agree, which is understandable, he's a guy ;) 
Once we left the theater we hit up this place off Route 50 called "Picante", which served some good Mexican food, and some extra large margaritas (just my style)... all-in-all, it was a great rainy day spent with D-Rock... I really enjoyed myself, and definitely needed the relaxation.

So now it is Monday morning, back to the grind for me while Derek is home sick :(  Hoping he feels better soon ... Maybe he needs some chocolate...oh wait, or Nyquil..

Also, I want to go back to Cancun.. or Dominican Republic.  I'm dying for some warm sunshine and a crystal clear beach with a frozen margarita in my hand........

Count Your Blessings

Ever since the beginning of the new year, and even a little bit before then, I have been constantly thinking about how incredibly lucky I am.  Actually, I've also been thinking about how the people around me should be just as grateful as I am.  If you really take a moment, pause, and reflect on all the GOOD things going on in your life, you will really be astonished at all the things you should not be taking for granted.
I want to compile a list of the things I am currently grateful for, this list is certainly not everything in my life.. but it's just what I've been thinking about mostly lately. So.. here it goes...

1.  FAMILY. I feel like for most people, this should be a number one priority.  I say most because I know many people who's family situations are far from perfect.  Mine, on the other hand, is more than perfect.  Yes, there have been (and there continue to be) fights between every member of each household in my family... but at the end of the day I have to think, would I rather be so completely alone that I have NOBODY to fight with? Or would I rather be completely surrounded by family who I usually get along with, but argue with from time to time? I'll take the latter.
It's a great feeling knowing that I have so many people to lean on and to laugh with.  Really, I don't tell them all (and there are MANY of them) often enough how much they really mean to me. 

2. My siblings... which goes hand in hand with appreciating number 1.. but I definitely feel the need to speak up about this one since this is a very emotional subject for me.  I would do just about ANYTHING for my siblings.. I love them more than I can even explain.  For example, the other night after going to the gym and having dinner with some friends, I came home and went upstairs to give my 3 y/o brother a kiss goodnight.  Well, my brother then asked me if I wanted to sleep with him... I mean, how can I say no?  He and I stayed up a little bit chit chatting, playing with his Wolverine action figure, and looking through the Victoria's Secret magazine (okay maybe that was just me), and eventually passed out.  If you have never had an experience like that then I can honestly say you are missing out.  Same thing goes with my 3 y/o sister and 5 y/o brother... I absolutely melt when I hang out with them.  Honestly, I'd rather spend a Friday or Saturday night playing Wii with them than going out spending money and getting hammered.  I'm so happy my parents decided to have more children... I am truly, TRULY blessed. 

3. And who isn't grateful for good friends? I mean seriously, I can't be the only one who has had multiple, MULTIPLE "best friends".  You know.. those friendships that are "strong" but then only last about 9 months to a year until one or the other becomes fed up with the other or breaks a promise/tells a secret.  I've had way too many of those and have quickly learned to be extremely careful about who I let into my circle.  I really don't have any time for heartache from a friend... I've done it too much, and now I can look around at my group of friends and know who are the real ones and who are not.  Which makes me appreciate them even more.  Honestly, I can say I only have two girlfriends who I will do just about anything for... and each of our friendships have been tested and pushed to the limits several times, and here we are today - still best friends.  I can't wait to someday see these girls at my wedding :) As for the rest of the people out there that have "done me wrong", I'm even MORE grateful that they are NOT a part of my life anymore.  

4. This is a new one... and I've only been truly appreciative of this person for the last few weeks or month since he came into my life.. but now that he is apart of my life, I never want him to go away.  Of course with  every new relationship the girl feels this way.. all part of that "love and infatuation game"... well, I really think this is something different.  I've never felt THIS way with any other man before.  He does and says every single thing I've wished all my ex boyfriends would do or say.  All of those times my previous boyfriend's would say, "Kristen you're being ridiculous", or "You're asking for way too much", even.. "NO man acts that way".  Well, he DOES exist.. because I found him.  I've never been happier, and I hope this feeling lasts.  He is a very special person, and really makes me believe in, "everything happens for a reason" :) 

5. I also want to explain my being thankful for my friends and family's health.  Recently I found out a good friend of my family's has cancer... she is in her 30's and has been diagnosed with Stage 4 Brain Cancer.  If you don't know, Stage 4 is the last.  How could this have happened to her? Especially since she is SERIOUSLY such a positive and fun person.  Literally, her laugh is contagious. Why her? Why ANYONE for that matter?  I get so sad when I think about illnesses like those…
Even thinking about my step-dad and his survival of testicular cancer… and then my grandmother and her two open-heart surgeries, and the fact that my mom could have the same issue my grandmother had.  Of course then there is breast cancer, I mean, nowadays it seems as though you have to be pretty damn lucky to escape having breast cancer.  I feel like half of the women I know have had it/are battling. 
We all live our lives day to day complaining about the same old stupid stuff never remembering that these insignificant trials will one day mean nothing in comparison to our battles for survival.

...On a brighter note.. I am also thankful for having the sense to get a Gold’s membership. I have never been overweight by any  means, I am actually a petite girl (which I am thankful for haha), but I am also extremely hard on myself, and I recognize this.  If I start to look a little chunky in any part of my body I begin to freak out hardcore; Well, after the holidays this past year (Um hello Debbie’s Mac & cheese, and mom’s pumpkin cheesecake?!), I was definitely becoming obsessed with my looks.  Well I’ve had my membership for about a month now, and I can definitely see some improvements.  I’m not necessarily trying to lose weight, I’m really just trying to tone. I’m beginning to feel muscles in places I haven’t felt since high school, and my stamina is WAY up.. all of those Zumba classes are treating me well I guess! I’m really looking forward to wearing a sexy bikini this Summer and actually FEELING sexy!

Oh yes, and how can I forget? Today is FRIDAY, and I am ecstatic about this! It’s only the AM, so plans may change .. but for now, work of course, tanning, gym, then showering and getting ready for a night out with Derek, his friends, and hopefully Laura will tag along :-)  Not sure where we will end up tonight, all I know is is that I am in the mood to DANCE, and to hang out with my man who I haven't seen since Sunday (UGH!).

Happy Friday everyone, keep your heads up :)

Brotherly Love Weekend

I just spent this past weekend in Philadelphia with my boyfriend, Derek.  I wish I knew more adjectives so I could better describe my time spent with him.  Let's just say I have never felt more taken care of in my life.  I also have not been this happy in a VERY long time. 

We both got out of work early on Friday afternoon so we could beat rush hour traffic and make it up to Philly in time to go to the 76ers vs. Grizzlies game.  THAT was fun.  I had never been to an NBA game before, and we had good seats, so all-in-all it was a great experience, especially for Derek who is actually a fan of the Sixers.
Well, before I make it sound all sweet and dandy, let me explain that it took us forever and three days to find the correct Metro line so we could get to the stadium.  Derek and I felt like such tourists (Well, we were.. but still..) and awful because we kept asking everyone around us for help.  In our defense, their "system" is not much of one at all. Sorry to all you Philly fans out there, but I'm fairly certain I will not be returning to your city.  How about you come down to DC and I'll show you how it's done :)

We left the game at the end of 3rd quarter so we could beat traffic, which worked perfectly, and then headed to this Mexican restaurant called, El Vez.  I had researched it online before our trip, because I had heard how amazing their margaritas and guacamole were.  Well, I can definitely attest to the margarita portion of my previous sentence ;)  I love guac, but I was just not in the mood for some reason; However, I am ALWAYS in the mood for a margarita! And let me tell you, this was a very strong and yummy one.  Actually, we ended up getting a pitcher for me and Derek to share and it was PLENTY enough to get us "twisted".  That was a good night :)

Saturday morning we found ourselves on the 31st floor for a fabulous and FREE breakfast!  We originally went to the concierge desk to ask where a local diner would be to have breakfast, when he lead us straight to the elevator, swiped his "magic key" and pushed the button for the 31st floor (club level).  It was a nice little treat, especially because it was so high that the views were just incredible.  After breakfast we ended up walking around Philly for a little sight-seeing (and cheese steak eating) which was fun, yet exhausting, and I'm not just referring to the walking.  It was very hard to walk so much and everywhere we go see people who are clearly drugged up, homeless, and begging for change.  I hate seeing it while I'm in DC, so I especially don't like seeing it while on a mini-vaca.  I know that sounds ignorant... since even though I don't see them they clearly DO still exist, but I always like to think I can "save the world", and it's really simply depressing when I realize I can't.

About 9pm was our bedtime on Saturday night, and I wouldn't have had it any other way :)  We woke up this morning, lounged a little bit.. checked out around 11am, and headed over to Philly's version of a "Farmer's Market" (I think that is what it's called? Derek knows more about it than I do) and we both chowed down on some fabulous burgers before heading to Annapolis for some Menchies. Yes, I said MENCHIES!!!  Menchies is a frozen yogurt place I discovered while in LA two years ago, and have been obsessed with ever since (Just ask Caroline).  Well, I knew there was one in Annapolis and brought the idea up to Derek to take a detour into the city so we could indulge in the best treat on this planet (fact). To my surprise, (since no ex-bf of mine would have ever said yes) he said OK.  This would be a good time to mention that I am the luckiest girl in the world.

So, here I am, Sunday night... just about ready to crash after a fabulous weekend.  I'm definitely not ready for the upcoming work week, the only thing that really helps me get through it lately is knowing that the closer I get to the end of the week, the closer I get to seeing my boyfriend.

Oh yeah, did I mention how happy I am? :)

The Reason

Well... Maybe you're wondering why I created a blog, or maybe you don't care... either way, here is my brief reasoning:

Last Summer my best friend, Caroline, created a blog to keep all of us up-to-date on her travels cross country as she made her big move to Los Angeles, California.  I absolutely loved logging on and reading about the adventures of her trip, plus, it was a great way to somewhat keep in touch in her life as she was traveling further and further away from me (Still hate her for that by the way ;) However, in hindsight, while it was a great tool to keep us all in the loop... it was also a fabulous way for Caroline to go back and read about her amazing time.  She can now go back to those Summer days traveling through Tennessee, Louisiana, Texas, Arizona, etc. and remember what it was like (and maybe even remember her feelings) as she made one of the biggest decisions of her life.  Well, that is exactly why I am creating my blog now.

No, I am not going on a cross-country trip (yet), nor am I making life altering decisions at this point in my life (so I think)... But maybe in a year or two.. or six, or ten.. looking back on this blog I will be able to reminisce on my life as a 23 year old girl living in Northern Virginia and be able to associate these times now with my current life in the future.  Maybe I am thinking too in-depth about this? Or maybe not.

 So.. read this if you would like.. or not... doesn't really matter to me.  Because I'm doing this for ME, and I'm proud of myself for it :)